John Avalon’s book, LINCOLN and the FIGHT for PEACE, on President Abraham Lincoln was a scholarly approach to multiple sources of documented literature. I was absorbed by John’s focus on the basic human understanding of Lincoln that we are all equals. It made Lincoln clearly famous, but I would have thought that his approach to others, including those he conquered, would have persevered. However, we know that our differences are now even more stringent with such bitterness that it is bonafide amazing that we could be so ignorant. But, again, I think of the likes of Jesus whose many identified followers, including some Christian churches (How Politics Poisoned the Church: The Atlantic June 2022), have no problem in hating or killing those who differ by color, sexual identification, or whatever makes them the “other”.
From John’s Book, I submit the following that characterizes the epitome of Lincoln’s love on others.
“With malice toward none; with charity for all; with firmness in the right, as God gives us the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in; to bind up the nation’s wounds; to care for him who shall have borne the battle, and for his widow and his orphan — to do all which may achieve and cherish a jet, and a lasting peace, among ourselves, and with all nations.
On April 4, 1865, President Lincoln walked with his son, Tad, among a crowd of liberated slaves who grabbed at this clothes and fell at his feet. “Don’t knell to me, he said. That is not right. You must kneel to God only and thank Him for the liberty you will afterward enjoy”
When he was asked how he should treat the traitorous rebels and scared citizens now under his command, he offered this advice: “We must extinguish our resentments if we expect harmony and union. If I were in your place, I’d let ‘em up easy, let ‘em up easy.”
Lincoln’s essential insight was that winning the war on the battle field was not enough. After civil war in a democracy, fighting citizens would need to learn to live with one another again. Lincoln understood that if you do not win the peace, you do not really win the war.
Lincoln embodied the politics of the Golden Rule — treating others as he would like to be treated. He did not demonize people he disagreed with, understanding that empathy is a pathway to persuasion.